Everything You Need to Know Before Booking Your First Boudoir Session
Introduction
Booking your first boudoir session can feel both exciting and a little intimidating. You might be asking yourself: What should I wear? Will I feel comfortable in front of the camera? How do I even choose the right photographer?
I get it, and I promise, you’re not alone. As a professional boudoir photographer in Hampshire, I’ve guided countless women through their first boudoir experience, and I’m here to make sure you feel completely supported every step of the way. This guide will walk you through everything you need to know before booking your first boudoir session so you can step into it feeling prepared, empowered, and excited.
What Is Boudoir Photography?
Boudoir photography is a celebration of confidence, femininity, and self-love. It’s not just about taking beautiful photos in lingerie, it’s about capturing the way you feel in your own skin. Whether you’re preparing a gift for your partner, marking a milestone, or simply treating yourself, boudoir sessions are designed to empower you and remind you of your beauty.
Why Book a Boudoir Session?
Confidence Boost – Many women tell me they walk out of their session standing taller, feeling bolder, and seeing themselves in a new light.
A Unique Gift – Brides, mums-to-be, and women celebrating milestones often choose boudoir as a deeply personal gift.
Time for Yourself – In our busy lives, we rarely slow down to celebrate ourselves. Boudoir gives you that moment.
How to Prepare for Your First Boudoir Session
Choosing Outfits
Lingerie is classic, but it doesn’t have to be all lace and corsets. Bodysuits, silk robes, bridal lingerie, or even a favourite oversized shirt can look stunning.
Bring 3–4 outfits you feel amazing in, and I’ll help you choose what photographs best.
Hair & Makeup
Professional styling is included in all my sessions with Lucy Bernier so you can relax and feel pampered. Think of it as part of your luxury experience.
Mindset Matters
Nerves are normal! But remember: it’s my job to guide you through flattering poses and help you feel confident throughout.
What to Expect During the Session
A Warm Welcome – We’ll chat over coffee or tea so you can relax before stepping in front of the camera.
Guided Posing – You don’t need to know how to pose, I’ll direct you the entire time.
Plenty of Laughter – Most clients are surprised by how much fun the session actually is!
Private, Comfortable Environment – My Hampshire venue is designed to feel luxurious, safe, and empowering.
After Your Boudoir Session
This is the part clients love most, the reveal. You’ll see your images and select your favourites for luxury albums, wall art, or digital collections. Many women describe this as the moment they truly see themselves in a new, empowering way.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Not at all! The most important thing is that you feel comfortable.
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Most of my clients say this at the start. With gentle posing guidance and encouragement, you’ll be amazed at how natural and confident you feel.
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Absolutely. Your images will only ever be shared with your written permission.
Final Thoughts
Booking your first boudoir session is a powerful act of self-love. It’s about celebrating yourself, capturing your beauty, and creating timeless memories. If you’ve been considering it but feel nervous — trust me, you are capable of more confidence than you realise, and I would love to help you discover it.
